How to Make Friends as an Adult

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Many adults struggle to make friends and feel lonely, and some even become depressed because of it.

Everyone wants to be happy and content in life, but can’t seem to do that with friends they don’t really connect with. There’s nothing wrong with taking a break from socializing and just spending time alone, but it can be a struggle when you’re tired or stressed to find yourself back out on the scene.

How to Build a Better Friendship Network in Your 20s & 30's

At the beginning of your 20s and 30’s, you’re especially busy with establishing your career and earning money. It’s easy to forget about making friends. However, it is important to build strong connections with your friends for support and growth.

Friends are able to offer advice on personal matters or lend a helping hand when needed. Friendships also have the ability to provide an escape from stressors in life.

You should identify what kind of relationships you want in your life. Are you looking for platonic relationships? Are you looking for romantic relationships? Do you want friendships that will last forever? Once you know what type of relationship you are seeking out, it is easier to find the type of people that will be compatible with them.

Building a Friendship Network with Social Media & Apps

Social media and apps have filled our lives with friends. One of the biggest benefits of social media is that you can connect to people with similar interests. Some organizations also use social media platforms to build a network of contacts and maintain relationships with their customers.

People often make friends online but how do we make sure that these friendships are not fake? There are apps on the market like Find My Friends that allow you to track your friend’s locations through GPS tracking, or even use chat-bots that can help you find a new friend in your locality.

Friendship Tips for the Younger Crowd

There are many things that make up a friendship, but the main thing is having fun together. You wouldn’t be friends with someone who didn’t have anything to share with you.

A lot of my friends don’t even know how to make a good friend. They are always too busy and they don’t understand that your time should be just as valuable as theirs. You should be able to spend time with them without the other person feeling like you are using them for something.

What’s the Difference Between Friends and Acquaintances?

Friends are people we have shared memories with, people we feel comfortable being around and talking to, people who know us better than anyone else. On the other hand, acquaintances are people who don’t have a significant impact on our daily lives or social circle.

The difference between friends and acquaintances can be difficult to define, but there are some key factors to take into account. For example, friendship is often more intense than an acquaintance.

Friendship is different from an acquaintance in two ways: intensity and frequency of interactions. The intensity of interaction can range from intimate like close friends to casual acquaintances that share background information but not much else. The frequency of interaction can range from seeing someone once every few months to seeing someone every day or even multiple times per day.

Isolation & Loneliness: The Silent Killer of Friendship

Loneliness is one of the most significant problems that are faced by millions of people all around the world. It can be caused by many reasons such as death, divorce, or job loss.

Studies show that being lonely can increase your risk for heart disease, depression, anxiety, and even cancer. Loneliness can also cause health issues such as weight gain and a weakened immune system. It is one of the primary factors that cause a decline in happiness among people who are already struggling with grief or other mental health issues.

Loneliness has been found to be an independent risk factor for physical activity; the more social you are, the better your health will be. If you want to live a healthy life with a low risk of developing loneliness-related issues later on in life, try doing these things:

The Power of Networking: How to Build Relationships for Success

Networking can be intimidating and it is not easy to find the right people to talk with. However, it is a skill that we should all learn to build connections for success.

Many of us do not have the time or patience to go networking. There are many popular alternatives like LinkedIn, Facebook groups, and Meetups that are more convenient. But these go-to platforms will only get you so far in your journey.

There is another way to build relationships for success: cold outreach. Cold outreach doesn’t require any introduction or introduction process; you simply reach out with the person’s name and email address and start conversations from there. It does require a lot of confidence but it can also be very rewarding in terms of results.

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